I have been a mother for 13 years. I put "everything on it" when I say that being a mother is the most important responsibility I will ever have. I take it seriously. Over my career, over friends, over family, over things, this duty stands taller because I was chosen at such a time as this to guide two souls, unlike anyone else, in this universe into purpose.
I truly believe that I have been carefully authorized to raise people that don't even belong to me. They are not my own. They belong to God. Therefore, it is my job to teach them to tap into who they were created to be and to prepare them for the purpose in which they were born. It's just that simple. Once they are grown, whether or not they choose to use the knowledge and training is up to them. I will not have any regrets. I will be able to lay my head down on my pillow and sleep peacefully knowing that I did, to the best of my ability, what I was supposed to do.
As individuals, I know that sometimes your own upbringing may not have prepared you for the advice I am about to give. Well, that's not an excuse. You must pray, educate yourself and lead by example.
Over the next few days, I'll share 6 unconventional lessons you can use to prepare your kids for purpose, and very well, help you in the process.
#1 - If you don't WORK, you shouldn't EAT.
Period. Help out. Did you forget "The Little Red Hen" fable? Tell me one good reason why you should be the first at the table when you didn't even contribute? Teach your children good work habits. Work before play. I strongly believe this. No, it's not harsh; it teaches the essentials to the physical work behind every worthwhile achievement. The concept alone was enough to get my kids on board. This is NOT a tactic to enslave your children or to shift your grown-up responsibilities on them. We always lead by example and you should too. This is a way to get some help around the house and to help young ones understand that families stick together through the good and through the work. Voluntarily pulling your weight shows that you respect the give and take system. Further, when they finally decide to chase their purpose, they won't be apt to give up so quickly because of all the hard work needed. They'll be prepared to face the work head on.
Tool & Tip:
My husband wrote, "All Play? (Not Today!)", a children's book based on our kids to illustrate work and appreciation. You can use this as a tool for younger kids. Purchase it on Amazon. Click Here to Purchase.
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